My daughter and son took to collecting it and now I have three Ziplock bags of hail in my refrigerator. Good luck to Greg, Maria and their kids in their trip to PA this afternoon. I hope they don't run into more of this.
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“Kids today don’t know how good they have it.” “Kids today are lazy and self centered.” “Kids today don understand the basics.” I have heard all of the following when it comes to kids or the teaching of them. I have had the distinct pleasure of teaching these same kids. I find the greatest part of the enjoyment in teaching comes from my interaction with them rather than the adults that deride. I am in no way suggesting that I have completed any kind of quantitative or quantitative study on adolescent behavior nor will I be doing any literature review, but given my five short years working with middle school students, I feel there are some observations that need to be made to help inform adults that have lost hope in their age deficient counterparts.
1. Kids listen to whoever is talking. The belief that kids don’t listen is just plain wrong. Kids listen. In fact, kids listen to everyone, that’s the problem. They lack the experience to filter out the bad advice from the good advice. Quite often the most charismatic voice heard will be taken as legitimate since they have so little evidence with which to compare (an affliction not escaping many adults). I have found in terms of how kids respond to me that how I say something matters more than what I say. The key to “teaching” is to get them both the “how” and the “what” right. Remember, I am battling MTV, ESPN and sometimes some really destructive parents to gather their attention.
2. Respect is earned not given. I do not get any credit for having my name on the door. To start from a position that suggests the students ought to respect me because of the position I hold automatically sets up a scenario in which I am looking down at my students. Every year I have to earn the respect of students. Most of the time it works but sometimes, regardless of time or effort, it doesn’t. When it works the respect I gained in outweighs the respect my position holds ten times over.
3. Kids care. Kids care about their family. Kids care about their world. Kids care about their education. Kids don’t always know how to care in a practical sense. They sometimes do not know the words to say our actions to take to demonstrate their concern but that’s the job of their teachers. Teachers help them find their way to be all of those things that our society wants them to be.
4. Kids are people. Kids are not adults nor do they have the experience cognitive ability or maturity, but that does not make them any less human. They are all infinitely complex bundles of nature and nurture. To treat them all as “kids” or “students” makes life for adults easier since one-size-fits-all characterizations make for easy solutions. But every kid needs to be looked at and treated like an individual. Because they are.
f the events. To actually see the vast amounts of primary source material that the museum had on loan or part of the permanent display was indescribable. They actually had some of the bunks from The Wisconsin NHD team along with a 4H group from WI had about a 30 min meet and greet with Sen. Kohl in the Hart Senate Offices. For those of you that are interested and didn’t know (I was one of them until yesterday,) the Senate and House each have separate buildings where they have their working offices. That is the Heart building. The Senator was very gracious in answering questions and even though his “handlers” tried several times to hurry him to his next appointment, he stayed and spoke to individuals and stood for photographs until everyone had a chance to meet him.
be close to the people. This level of openness was in stark contrast to the reception that we received at the White House. In my humble and less than studied opinion, everything about the White House screamed “STAY OUT! This building is not for you.” Even my student noticed and wondered aloud “Don’t we pay for all that and shouldn’t we at least get to see it up close?” It’s hard to disagree.
Now, I know there are dangerous people out there and our elected leaders need protection from them in order for this country to maintain stability, but if certain leaders in this country continue to shield themselves behind an ever increasing wall to keep “us” out, we may end up with a government “by the people, for the people” but not “of the people.”